What do women want? That is the age old question.
Sexual desire can happen with the slightest touch in what we call the erogenous zones. Erogenous means arousing or to arouse sexual desires. Ladies have erogenous zones all over their bodies. While every woman is different, and they all like different things, here are some common spots that when touched right, can send her through the roof.
Starting at the top, there are her ears, lips, and neck. Almost everyone knows that kissing on the mouth is about the number one way to get bedroom activities going. What you may not know is that ears are the perfect way to send incredible sensations all over the body, and a gentle kiss on the neck can do the same.
Below her neck, are her breasts. Yes, that’s right boys – not only do most men appreciate the breasts, but women like having them stimulated too. Some women love nipple stimulation, while others may find their nipples are very sensitive and need to be handled with care.
Moving down are her wrists, inner thighs, and the back of her knees. Lightly caressing here can tingle her whole body. And don’t forget her feet and toes! The feet are so packed with nerve endings, that a firm massage can put her in the mood in no time! Some people even like to suck on the toes. Now, I understand this may not be for everyone – but as long as you are giving her a foot rub, why not give it a try?
Now, onto the more obvious erogenous zones…
First, let’s talk about the tush. Spanking and squeezing are very popular methods to stimulate this zone. But there are other ways for those who aren’t shy. Some partners enjoy licking and penetrating the back door as well. If you aren’t totally ready for all that yet, we can talk more about the basics of anal play later.
Moving forward is the vagina. Remember that most of the nerve endings are right inside, so going deeper won’t necessarily be better. About one to three inches inside the front wall (belly button side) of the vagina is the g-spot. The g-spot can be aroused by making a come hither motion with a finger or two.
And I saved the best for last! Further forward, past the vagina, is the clitoris. The clitoris is the most important part of a woman’s body for sexual stimulation. The clit’s sole purpose for existence is to deliver happy orgasms through the thousands of nerve endings located in this one place. Rubbing, licking, vibrating – every woman will enjoy something different. But please, please, do not forget the clit!
Anatomy aside, women can also be turned by their brains. Whispering sweet nothings or raunchy pillow talk may stimulate the mind, which will translate to the rest of the body. This is one reason why women love erotic fiction so much!
The main thing to remember here is that everyone is different. Each person likes certain spots touched certain ways, and communication is a great way to find all of your lover’s hot spots. Don’t forget to watch for body language. When you hit the right spot, you will know!