When asked, “Where is the clitoris?” every man should know the answer. After all, it can help guide his lovely lady to an intense, climactic orgasm. Unfortunately most men could name more parts under the hood of a car than they could underneath their lady’s hood.
If you were to “pop the top” so to speak and take a look at her engine, you would see that the clitoris is located near the top of the vulva underneath the delicate folds of the inner labia. Power packed with over 8,000 nerve endings and no scientific explanation other than sheer pleasure, the clitoris is a powerful organ. In comparison, the penis is only half as sensitive.
With all that orgasmic horsepower you might want to proceed with caution fellas, as every woman is different and enjoys different stimulation. It is very important to communicate with her on how much pressure and speed she likes, as well as what spot.
You might be thinking that stimulating just the clitoris is the way to go, however this complex little glans affects over 15,000 other nerves in the pelvic area. That’s a lot of punch for one button! That’s why it’s important not to zoom in on that one spot immediately during intimate encounters. Make sure to stimulate all the parts of her vulva and get all of the parts to this complex machine working together.
There are plenty of ways to jump start her pleasure and stimulate the clitoris. However you start, you will want to be washed up and groomed (shop grease is not a good lube) since you are entering sensitive territory. Lube is a nice addition to manual stimulation since it can help her sensitivity, just make sure to chat with her about any allergies or sensitivities beforehand. Hives aren’t sexy, folks. If you want to give your hand a break or just want to power boost her big O, try a vibrator. They come in a variety of shapes and styles and can really bring some heat between the sheets. Talk to her about trying out a vibe with clit play, and suggest shopping for one together. You might end up getting some new ideas. Show her that a crank shaft isn’t the only thing on your mind, and revv her engine with clit play!