Me and my wife have been married a few years now and are wanting to try something new. My wife has expressed her interest in anal play and how do I say this…anal play for the both us.We both are new at this but I am willing to give it a try for her. I don’t even know how to start this!
You came to the right place! Let’s start the crash course of Anal Play 101!
First rule of anal play is to RELAX! Without the right state of mind, anal play will be more difficult and less enjoyable. Now that you are in a relaxed state of mind, you will want your new best friend when it comes to anal play, Lubricant! Since the anus does not lubricate itself, lubricant is very important.
When you are a beginner to anal play, you want to start out with the size of a finger. This is the perfect size to get use to this new feeling and to see what you are comfortable with. But, before just diving right on it, stimulate the anus to relax it with a little massage, with the help of some lube of course!
Now that everyone is on board and ready, you can start slowly exploring that bliss of anal play.Some of you might be screaming “wait a minute you want me to stick my finger there!?”If you are worried about hygiene issues, you can always use an anal douche before anal play to help clean the area. Finger condoms are also available to put a barrier between you and your partner.
If you are thinking more on the lines of using an anal toy instead, have no fear there are plenty to pick from! Just keep in mind the rules of a beginner to anal: Small, Slow, and properly lubricated! A small plug with a flared based is ideally for beginners to the anal play game!
Anal play can be enjoyed by both males and females, BUTT has to be done right!